I just happened across this and my heart is broken in two. Such a sweet boy and to never know why, is beyond comprehension. I have a 3 year old grandson and I can't imagine the pain and horror you have been through. I would gladly have taken his place, he never got to live his life, but the life he lived touched so many. My heart breaks for you, just remember, there is someone across the pond who has Declan and you in her heart. Shelbie Johnston, San Jose, California USA